cloth napkins for parties

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I'm excited to tell you I finally took the plunge and ordered cocktail-size cloth napkins to use for parties! If you read my post last year http://dirtandsunshine.posterous.com/crazy-about-cloth-napkins you'll know that one thing (napkin-wise) had previously eluded me: enough for the 50-75+ person parties we like to throw.

I took a chance and contacted the same Etsy vendor, PicnicBasketCrafts, who made our much-loved red checked set. Tiffany and Joan were up for the project and even let me select my own fabric (which they then purchased).

I decided to go with green since most of our parties are in spring and summer. The flannel fabric is a muted brown and cream plaid pattern which is nice because plain napkins show stains, FYI. Also, I could not find a floral pattern I really liked so plaid it was (the selection of good flannel options is depressingly limited). The upside is that these will work well for picnics and tailgate parties.

They are a great size, too. Five inches by eight inches. Easy enough to tuck under our three-inch ceramic party plates. So here we are, one step closer to the ultimate eco-friendly party!

P.S. If you want to find Tiffany and Joan on Etsy, go to: http://www.etsy.com/shop/picnicbasketcrafts

Filed under  //  Green living  
Posted by Kathryn Besser 

my ad hoc obsession

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It all started when our toaster appeared to be on its last legs.

Sixteen+ years is a long time in the life of an appliance (these days), so I reluctantly headed to Williams-Sonoma to see what was currently available. We've had a lot of luck with W-S over the years. When they carried our Waring Anniversary Blender, for example, they used to replace it for free *if* it sprung a leak (which happened once or twice because we mistakenly used it to blend hot soups - who knew it wasn't designed for scalding hot liquids?).

They actually didn't have many choices in toasters at present, and with a bit more reluctance, I purchased a toaster oven. My friend, Becky, raves about hers and I trust Becky implicitly. So I figured it was worth a try.

When shopping at a high-end kitchen shop, it pays to be thrifty where you can. Which is how I found myself applying for a Williams-Sonoma credit card in order to save $25. I'll be cancelling it after the first statement, of course.

While waiting for the approval process to be finalized, I started wandering around the specialty food section. Have you been inside a Williams-Sonoma store lately? It's been taken over by celebrity chefs hawking their high end wares. Some of it is a bit ridiculous and over the top but if you've ever wanted to experience the magic of Thomas Keller sans $400 per person lunch bill, here's a little tip for you: try the Ad Hoc line of gluten free goods.

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At $15-20 a pop, they are pricey but it's an amazing thing to experience a bit of Thomas Keller's genius at home. The brownies and Belgian waffle mix are delicious and we can't wait to try the fried chicken brine/batter kit (below).

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You can bet I'll be having Becky and her family over for our maiden fried chicken effort. Thanks, Beck!

Filed under  //  Food-related  
Posted by Kathryn Besser 

one day without shoes?

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Mark your calendars, friends; 4/10/12 is Toms' "One Day without Shoes" event.

http://www.onedaywithoutshoes.com/

What I love about this is its 'no frills' approach. Simply spread the word and take off your shoes for one day to help raise awareness about the importance of footwear (something we often take for granted). Milions of children around the world go without shoes on a regular basis, exposing them to injury and illness, among other things.

If you want to kick it up a notch, you can download the *free* DIY kit (signage, etc.) and give the event even more real world presence. KONY 2012 folks, this is how it's done.

It won't cost you any money.

It may be a bit uncomfortable (I recommend being prepared with groceries, gas in the car, etc.).

But it will help you live one of my mantras: do something every day to be part of the solution (Anne Lamott).

Filed under  //  Philanthropic  
Posted by Kathryn Besser 

be a mock star like us...

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In Seattle, one of the best things to do with kids is take them to EMP.

EMP, or Experience Music Project, is the brainchild of Paul Allen, co-founder of Microsoft. It's a museum entirely dedicated to music, rock and roll in particular. If you've ever wanted to unleash your inner rock star, "On Stage Live" is the place to do it.

After selecting a song from the four choices ("Wild Thing", "I Love Rock 'n Roll", "Twist & Shout", or "Purple Haze"), you choose a name for your band ("SWAG") and receive a backstage pass to the mock stage. An enthusiastic sound engineer greets you and invites you to pick an instrument (keyboard, drums or guitar) or opt to be the lead singer.

Then, the fun begins...

The engineer announces your band and you feel your adrenaline start to pulse as lights flash, smoke billows and your song ("Wild Thing") begins. If you're like us and have NO music abilities, you can have the instruments autoplay while you pound or strum like a rock star and sing your heart out. The lyrics pop up on a monitor and, thankfully, you're auto-tuned to sound like a half-way decent band. We were SO bad, we were almost good (and I say that with a tremendous amount of affection for my family).

About halfway through, you're alerted to pose for your official poster (above) and then rock your way to a furious, fabulous finale. As you exit, you pick up your official tickets (below) and wait for your DVD/poster.

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It was truly an amazing experience from start to finish.

Paul and the boys liked it so much, they ran back in and made a second one ("I Love Rock 'n Roll" as "Da Boyz"); meanwhile, I waited a few minutes for my heart rate to return to normal.

All Tate wanted to do the next day was go back to EMP and make another video, so, of course, we did. The last one was "Twist & Shout" and we chose to be "SWAG Again". The sound engineer with whom we had so much fun the day before pushed his colleague aside and insisted he produce our last "hit".

I wish I could upload and play the videos for you but visitors are expressly forbidden from anything other than personal, at-home viewing. Oh well, you'll just have to come over to our house and see them for yourself!

For more information on EMP and On Stage Live, go to:

http://www.empmuseum.org/exhibitions/index.asp?categoryID=218&ccID=167

Posted by Kathryn Besser 

what teenager is quiet?

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"When you love something so much, you talk about it, you can't contain it. If you find something you think is the greatest thing in the world, what teenager is quiet? There are none."

Megan Jasper, Sub Pop Records

I LOVE this quote!!! (from the Nirvana exhibit at Experience Music Project in Seattle, Washington).

Posted by Kathryn Besser 

eating well in seattle (or 3.5 days of donuts!)

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Two years ago, I took Dane and Tate to Seattle for a brief culinary roadtrip (tag=Seattle foodfest). This year, we decided to go again and were lucky my husband's travel schedule had an opening last week...he is one busy guy! We returned to the amazing Ace Hotel (more on that later) and lucked into some fabulous new restaurants while revisiting a few old favorites.

If you're hungry, grab a snack and take a peek at our three-and-a-half day gastronomic extravaganza, one dish at a time.

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We arrived after 1pm on Wednesday and were pretty famished by the time we stashed our bags at the hotel. As we walked down First Avenue on our way to "best breakfast in Seattle" Lola we saw a relatively new restaurant about two blocks from the Ace: Local 360. Rather than walk the extra blocks to Lola, we decided to check it out.

Local 360 primarily focuses on regional sources for meat, dairy, produce, and bread. The interior is stunning (rustic/natural) and the food is divine. Above is the to-die-for fried chicken WITH BACON sandwich Tate and I shared. Topmost is the pulled pork sandwich Dane had (Paul tried the bar burger which I forgot to photograph).

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Tate and I also split a beet salad with argula, fennel, blood oranges, walnuts and feta, really good and really popular all over Seattle this time of year. I kid you not, a version of beet salad was at EVERY restaurant we frequented.

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This is seriously cool - a regularly updated list of where everything on the menu comes from. I love the "Mad Hatcher" chicken/egg ranch!

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Paul and I started sourcing local coffee bars soon after lunch. On the recommendation of one of the servers at Lola (we stopped so Paul could check out the menu), we headed over to Top Pot Donuts on 5th Avenue.

Jackpot!! They make the most awe-inspiring donuts every day and their coffee is pretty good, too. We picked up a raspberry old-fashioned for Tate and a Boston cream-filled donut for Dane.

Later that evening, we headed to Serious Pie for dinner. It was too dark to photograph the delightful goat cheese, caramelized onion, and fresh basil pizza we shared (Note: I brought a flash on the 2010 trip if you want to see a few pizza photos).

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It was almost 7pm when we left and we decided to stop at Top Pot to share a donut for dessert. We arrived 5 minutes before closing and discovered they didn't have someone from the local homeless shelter coming to pick up leftover donuts. So guess what? They gave us 15 donuts FOR FREE!! We think this was the story of the trip, one we'll recount for years to come.

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The next morning, we went to Lola for breakfast and had three (!) orders of their one-of-a-kind beignet donuts with vanilla mascarpone and homemade jam. Paul finally understood our collective obsession with Lola donuts!

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Next, on to Stumptown for serious espresso drinks. We had to trek about 12 blocks (uphill, much to the boys chagrin) but it was totally worth it. Lots of locals wanted us to try their favorites (Bedlam Coffee, Bauhaus Coffee, etc.) but to us, Stumptown. Is. King.

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I had a lot of fun testing my new photography skills inside Stumptown (manual settings, spot metering, natural light only). What do you think, have I improved a bit?

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After hanging out at a few coffee shops on Capitol Hill, we headed over to a new mini collective, Melrose Market. It's a locavore's delight, a collection of restaurants and shops housed in a former auto body shop, each business focused on local, sustainable and organic items. I feel there's an entire post about Melrose Market coming, please stay tuned. Meanwhile, check out the outrageous-looking sandwich above! Turkey, bacon and avocado on locally-made (Macrina Bakery) bread from a darling food stand called Homegrown.

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Tate and I shared the turkey/bacon sandwich and another beet salad (equally good to the one at Local 360). Dane had a Caesar salad and Paul tried another of the sandwiches. My memory starts to become a blur at this point - there were so many good things on the menu!

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Across from Homegrown is a small butcher shop with the healthiest, most beautiful cuts of meat I've ever seen. What do you think about the gorgeous color on that steak?

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Not that I was ready to eat again after our sumptuous breakfasts and lunches, but we had a reservation at one of Ethan Stowell's restaurants, How to Cook a Wolf, that night. It was very nice but we weren't as impressed as most of the people who give it rave reviews. Maybe it was because the service was fairly indifferent and the food no better than most high-end Italian restaurants in the U.S. After eating a best-ever tortellini al ragu in Bologna, I guess we're just a bit jaded.

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The next morning (Friday), it was back to Lola for another over-the-top breakfast with two bags of donuts, scrambled eggs with feta and fresh dill (my special request), and their housemade granola, which Dane could not get enough of.

Update 3/2: I just found out they are releasing the granola recipe in an upcoming cookbook (The Dahlia Lounge Bakery Cookbook, est. arrival of 10/23/12). We are totally stoked because this is without a doubt the best granola we've ever had. Breakfast lovers, rejoice!

After Lola, we upped the sugar quotient by getting coffee (me=machiato) at Top Pot along with a few donuts. They really are the best old-fashioned donuts I've ever had. Totally different than the beignet style at Lola but fantastic in their own way. Look at the perfect balance of icing to cake below - dang, I wish we could make them at home!

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After our second breakfast, we walked over to the Space Needle (Dane and Tate went up themselves - hooray for teenagers) and EMP, the Experience Music Project (Seattle's best attraction, in my humble opinion). We had a blast making our own music video (really!) and checking out the Nirvana exhibit - more on that in a future post, especially if I can get the videos loaded onto YouTube.

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We took the monorail to Pike's Place Market area, meaning to grab Tate a pulled pork sandwich at Etta's, another fine Tom Douglas restaurant. Sadly, it is no longer on the menu so we opted to try elsewhere and come back for the evening's "crabby hour" between 4-6pm.

We headed back towards the Ace and spontaneously decided to eat at Macrina Bakery, which is literally across the street from the hotel. Boy, are we glad we did! The butternut squash/pumpkin seed bread Paul ordered (above) was phenomenal as was the carrot/beet soup and field greens salad I had (below). Dane and Tate chose meat-filled sandwiches and swapped halves.

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For dessert, Tate was certain their pot du creme (below) was delicious. Of course, he was absolutely correct!

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I wanted to try their daily desssert special, a rustic almond cake with chocolate sauce (below). Heavenly.

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Again, it was nearly impossible to eat dinner after successive carb-laden breakfasts and lunches. We went a little lighter at Etta's, catching the end of happy hour and finally having some local seafood (Dungeness crab and shrimp).

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Paul and I got up a bit early on Saturday and made the long trek to Stumptown once again.

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We got a bit of exercise, had some private time as a couple and enjoyed good-to-the-last-drop cappuccinos...fabulous!

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On the way home, we had the boys meet us at Local 360.They are not open for breakfast during the week so this was our one and only chance to try their delicious brunch. Dane, surprisingly, ordered the chicken and waffles as did Paul and Tate. It's a funny, Southern thing but SO well done at Local 360.

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We headed back to EMP to make another fun music video (truly, one of the most awesome things to do with your kids in Seattle) then whipped over to Lola for one last lunch. I was craving another salad after all the breadstuffs I'd ingested, and Lola's Greek version (below) was nice and light.

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Tate finally got to have his cherished lamb burger and he enjoyed the taste and texture of the chick pea fries with roasted red pepper dipping sauce (below).

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That's our edible adventure... do you feel a bit full yourself now?

Filed under  //  Culinary journeys   Seattle foodfest  
Posted by Kathryn Besser 

play outside in the dirt

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It's no accident I titled my book "dirt & sunshine" and labeled the first essay "play outside in the dirt".

More than anything, I wanted to stress that the best bits of parenting advice are simple, basic ones. How many times did your mother say, "just go play outside!" when you were growing up? With four kids underfoot, my mom probably said it to get a little peace and quiet in the afternoons. But we heeded her advice and spent A LOT of time out of doors, playing imaginary games.

And that's the thing about playing outside - it spurs your imagination in ways video games, iPads and other electronic devices cannot. Nature is wild and doesn't present itself in neat little boxes. You have to imagine a pile of sticks and leaves is a fort or that you can actually dig to China. I think it helps kids think creatively to solve problems.

Has your child ever wanted to build a tree fort or other outdoor hideaway? How do you suppose their thought processes are affected trying to find materials or engineer something that actually supports their weight? Compared to a video game where all the pieces are there to be assembled, the insights they'll gain about hidden possibilities in objects and situations are terrific life skills.

Please note that I am not inherently against computer games and such. It's just that I see electronic realms as entirely two-dimensional (even though there are 3-D applications that simulate the real world, of course). To me, it's so vastly different when you have 360 degrees of open space and nature all around you.

My feeling is that nature takes kids away from the "action-reward" syndrome prevalent in every type of electronic application (you do something and you are rewarded, i.e., something blows up, you move to the next level, etc.) and gives them something infinitely more rewarding: a patient, fertile testing ground for ideas. Good, bad, or indifferent; the feedback from nature is invaluable.Trying to dig to China shows kids how deep the Earth really is or that it is filled with rocks and worms and other living creatures. It might spur them to dig a cave or bury a treasure. The possibiliities are endless, don't you think?

So, the next time your kid asks to go on the computer or use your iPad, try saying, "Go play outside for a bit."

 

Posted by Kathryn Besser 

loving what you do...

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I found these two four leaf clovers at the park this morning. It made me reflect on how lucky I am to live a life I love and do a job (graphic design) I truly enjoy. To me, finding four leaf clovers is like extra icing on the cake!

Yesterday was a perfect example. Dane woke me up at 5:30am to take him to open gym at school (he's trying out for the JV volleyball team and wants to make a good impression). Even though I am not an early morning person, I was grateful for my son's enthusiasm and this made it easier to get out the door on a chilly morning.

Later, I spent time with my two favorite clients: Emily Joubert Home & Garden (Judy Sieber) and Bella Rosa Boutique (Deb, Gina, et al). Their passion and enthusiasm for what they do is infectious. I spent a delightful hour with Judy going over some truly exciting changes to her website. Being with Judy is like hanging out with Martha Stewart if she was as warm as she was talented. Hard to believe we got any work done with all the personal catching up going on!

I then rushed out the door to make my next meeting in Los Gatos. At Bella, it hardly felt like work. Imagine being in a beautiful place, surrounded by beautiful,charming women PLUS amazing clothes and getting to walk around with a camera capturing it all. That was my afternoon! In addition, the Bella girls are so excited about learning the new website development tool we are implementing. Coaching and mentoring is one of my passions and Gina is without a doubt my all-time favorite pupil.

Heading home, I picked up Dane walking home from school, then went out the door again to get supplies and snacks for the parent education workshop I was hosting at the middle school (Creative Bookmaking Workshop with Hans and Jen Hartvickson of Mister Lemur). The workshop went off without a hitch, despite it being a pilot program. The mini books the kids made were charming and will soon be available for viewing on www.misterlemur.com. I adore Jen and Hans and had a blast walking around taking photos of the kids and adults. This is one of the many reasons I spend so much time volunteering in our local schools. I'm pretty sure it's a better high than recreational drugs (though I don't have a good frame of reference, of course!).

My boys were on hand; Dane assisting here and there while Tate attended the workshop. I can't tell you how exciting it was to see Tate start sketching ideas for his own book (in addition to the one he collaborated on) and Dane continue to grab pieces of cardstock and create ad hoc illustrations. It reinforced my desire to keep the kids away from the electronics as much as possible.

I ended the evening on a long phone call with my dear friend, Emma Hand (of Snap Stories fame...remember them? http://www.snapstories.com/ if you are interested in seeing one of the best ideas I've encountered in a long time). We talked about all the seeds we plant here and there and how you need to nurture some things and leave others to take root on their own. It reminded me of how much I love and appreciate my core support group: Emma, Pascale  http://fabphotos.biz/ and Calvina http://calvinaphotography.com/ . Being friends with those talented and creative gals, now that is truly lucky!

So, to sum up... I think it is tremendously important to try and do what you love (if it's not feasible now, think about a one, two or five year plan to move to a career that lights your fire). You don't have to make every second or every minute count, just make sure you doing more good, happy, reflective things than not. I think you'll find, like me, that this sort of stuff starts compounding and you realize one day you have created the life of your dreams. Attitude may not be half the battle but it's the best, easiest and cheapest place to start. Good luck!!

P.S. Stay tuned to both www.emilyjoubert.com and www.bellarosaboutique.com to see these changes in the coming weeks!

Posted by Kathryn Besser 

attention parents of girls (and boys)

In case you haven't seen this, here is the trailer for an upcoming documentary, MissRepresentation. As a parent of two boys, I feel this is mandatory viewing (even though it mainly covers media portrayals of women and girls and our lack of female representation in the upper echelons of power).

It's sad and shocking. We need to be aware of the myriad ways our children are influenced by mass media and react accordingly. I plan to see MissRepresentation in theaters - anyone up for a parents' night out?

P.S. Thanks to my friend, Cynthia, for bringing this to my attention.

Posted by Kathryn Besser 

my top five kitchen staples (ingredients)

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I've been doing a lot of thinking about kitchen essentials. Have you ever considered how versatile Dijon mustard is? Or the myriad dishes you can create when you have fresh lemons on hand? Yes, this is where my mind goes!

I fall in and out of love with certain ingredients as the seasons change but my top five "staples" list has stayed constant for years. What I rely on most (and use nearly every day) are:

1. Lemons (always fresh)
2. Mustard (Dijon and whole grain)
3. Onions (preferably sweet, like Maui or Vidalia)
4. Olive oil
5. Soy sauce

LEMONS: We are lucky to have fresh citrus year round in California. Our four trees are always producing, so a fresh-picked lemon is a quick trip to the garden away. I make SO many things with lemons, it's hard to ennumerate them: our basic vinaigrette, lemon-Dijon chicken marinade, lemon-olive oil drizzle on ANY steamed or stir-fried green vegetable, lemon juice on crispy smashed potatoes or french fries, lemon on grilled fish, etc.

MUSTARD: I think I use mustard every day, too. It's the basis for my homemade vinaigrette

http://dirtandsunshine.posterous.com/djion-vinaigrette-step-by-step-by-step

and it seems to make its way into practically every chicken recipe I make (except fried chicken). We especially love Dijon on steamed carrots:

http://dirtandsunshine.posterous.com/carrots-a-la-kathy

ONIONS: My favorite cooking aroma of all time is onions sauteed in olive oil. The scent in the air takes me right to Italy and this combination is the foundation of many amazing meals. We like raw onions in salads (Greek salad and tomato-onion-avocado salad, for example),

http://dirtandsunshine.posterous.com/tomato-avocado-onion-salad

and cooked onions in soups, stews, and pastas:

http://dirtandsunshine.posterous.com/garden-inspired-pasta-pb

OLIVE OIL: I wrote about my family's intense love of olive oil in 'dirt&sunshine'. We really do go through several bottles a month, using a Spanish variety from Trader Joe's for our every day cooking and a rotating selection of the best extra virgin offerings from Italy, Greece and California on salads, soups, pastas, and vegetables. It really is liquid gold to us!

SOY SAUCE: Did you know that many great marinades have a bit of soy sauce for saltiness and texture? It's surprising how many times it pops up in recipes I find (especially for grilled meats). For our family, it makes the best two-ingredient chicken marinade EVER:

http://dirtandsunshine.posterous.com/two-minute-two-ingredient-chicken-marinade

Try some of these ideas and let me know what you think. Also, what are YOUR top five ingredients? I'm curious!

Filed under  //  Recipe  
Posted by Kathryn Besser